{"id":2794,"date":"2026-04-28T16:23:03","date_gmt":"2026-04-28T16:23:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/africaalliance.ipas.org\/kubadilika-kuwa-mawakala-wa-mabadiliko-jinsi-vikata-miwa-vya-ndhiwa-vinavyotia-matumaini-moyoni\/"},"modified":"2026-05-07T15:25:39","modified_gmt":"2026-05-07T15:25:39","slug":"kubadilika-kuwa-mawakala-wa-mabadiliko-jinsi-vikata-miwa-vya-ndhiwa-vinavyotia-matumaini-moyoni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/africaalliance.ipas.org\/swc-cd\/kubadilika-kuwa-mawakala-wa-mabadiliko-jinsi-vikata-miwa-vya-ndhiwa-vinavyotia-matumaini-moyoni\/","title":{"rendered":"Kubadilika Kuwa Mawakala wa Mabadiliko: Jinsi Vikata Miwa vya Ndhiwa Vinavyotia Matumaini Moyoni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;safu&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.6&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]Kundi la wanaume limeketi kwa uvumilivu chini ya mti huku wakizungumza kwa upole baada ya kazi ngumu ya siku nzima katika mashamba. Kwa kawaida, wangekuwa wakizungumzia kuhusu soka, siasa, au safari zinazohusiana na miwa. Lakini huu si mkutano wa kawaida.    <\/p>\n<p>Kusudi lao &#8211; kukabiliana na historia yenye uchungu na kufanya kazi ya kukomesha mimba za utotoni, ukatili wa kijinsia, na utoaji mimba usio salama katika jamii yao.  <\/p>\n<p>Hapa, mvuto wa pesa za haraka na hadithi za kijamii kuhusu jukumu la mtoto wa kike umewaacha wasichana kadhaa wadogo mikononi mwa wakataji miwa wakorofi.  <\/p>\n<p>Kwa miaka mingi, wakataji miwa wa Ndhiwa, wanaojulikana kama Obanda waliogopwa. Jina lao likawa sawa na unyonyaji, unajisi, mimba za utotoni, na unyanyasaji wa kingono na kijinsia (SGBV). Walimu waliwaonya wasichana wa shule kuwahusu. Familia ziliwalaumu kwa kuharibika kwa mustakabali. Katika eneo ambalo umaskini ni mkubwa na ukataji wa miwa hutoa pesa haraka, wasichana walikuwa katika hatari zaidi.      <\/p>\n<p>Kulingana na Utafiti wa Afya na Idadi ya Watu wa Kenya (KHDS) 2022, Kaunti ya Homa Bay ambapo Ndhiwa ipo inarekodi mojawapo ya viwango vya juu zaidi vya mimba za utotoni nchini Kenya, huku asilimia 23 ya wasichana wenye umri wa miaka 15-19 wakiwa wameanza kuzaa. Nyuma ya idadi hii kuna hadithi za wasichana waliolazimishwa kuacha shule, kulazimishwa kutoa mimba zisizo salama, au kukwama katika uzazi wa mapema.   <\/p>\n<p>Jackson Odhiambo, ambaye sasa ana umri wa miaka 38, anajua ukweli huu vizuri sana.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nilikuwa mtu mwenye kiburi sana, mkorofi na mjeuri. Ningepuuza hata familia yangu,&#8221; anasema. Kwa zaidi ya muongo mmoja, Odhiambo alifanya kazi kama mkata miwa. Kwa mapato ya kila wiki wakati mwingine yanazidi Ksh 6,000, anakiri kwamba yeye na wengine walitumia pesa zao kuwanyonya wasichana na wanawake wadogo.    <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Wasichana kadhaa wanaoenda shule waliachwa na mimba na elimu yao ilisitishwa. Hata wanawake vijana walioolewa walipoteza ndoa zao kwa sababu yetu,&#8221; alisema. 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Baadhi walilazimishwa kutoa zawadi ndogo; wengine walilengwa wakati wa kupeleka chakula mashambani. Wakati mimba zilipotokea, wasichana walishinikizwa kutoa mimba zisizo salama, mara nyingi na watoa huduma wasio na sifa kutokana na hofu ya kuwajibika.    <\/p>\n<p>Akikumbuka nyuma, Odhiambo anasema, &#8220;Niligundua kuwa nilikuwa naharibu maisha kupitia utoaji mimba wa kulazimishwa, ambao mara nyingi si salama.&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>Mazingira yalifanya matumizi mabaya yawe rahisi. Siku nyingi mashambani, pesa taslimu mkononi, pombe, na shinikizo la rika viliimarisha tabia mbaya. Vurugu ikawa kawaida. Odhiambo anakiri kutoweka nyumbani kwa siku kadhaa baada ya kulipwa, akimfukuza mkewe kila alipomuuliza maswali.     <\/p>\n<p>Hata hivyo, leo, Odhiambo aliyebadilishwa sasa ni miongoni mwa wale wanaoongoza harakati za kubadilisha tabia hii na kuwalinda walio katika mazingira magumu kutokana na maovu ambayo yalikuwa ya kawaida kwa Obanda.  <\/p>\n<p>Mabadiliko yake yalitokea alipojiunga na Mtandao wa Wasaidizi wa Kisheria wa Nyarongi, mpango unaotegemea jamii unaowafunza wanaume na wanawake kama mabingwa wa Afya ya Ngono na Uzazi na Haki (SRHR).  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nilifunzwa pamoja na wanaume wengine, na imekuwa safari iliyojaa baraka,&#8221; anasema.  <\/p>\n<p>Kupitia mazungumzo, ufahamu wa kisheria, na tafakari, Odhiambo alianza kuelewa madhara aliyowasababishia wasichana na familia yake mwenyewe. Aliacha kujihusisha na vurugu, akaanza kuunga mkono elimu ya watoto wake, na kujenga upya ndoa yake.   <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nimemlipa hata mahari mke wangu,&#8221; anasema, huku akitabasamu usoni mwake.  <\/p>\n<p>Hadithi yake inafanana na ile ya Lamech Ogola kutoka kijiji cha Kanyikela Kusini, ambaye pia aliwahi kuishi bila kujali.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Niliamini katika &#8216;unaishi mara moja tu&#8217;,&#8221; Ogola anasema. Baada ya kuacha shule, aligeukia kukata miwa. Anakiri kuwa aliwezesha utoaji mimba usio salama kwa angalau wasichana watano wa shule kupitia watoa huduma bandia.    <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sikuwa na hofu ya VVU. Sikuwa na hofu ya sheria,&#8221; anasema.  <\/p>\n<p>Mabadiliko ya Ogola yalianza wakati mwenzake wa kukata miwa, ambaye tayari alikuwa sehemu ya kundi la wasaidizi wa kisheria alipompinga kupitia mazungumzo, badala ya kumlaani.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Tulikuwa tunazungumza bila mpangilio na ghafla akaanza kuzungumza kwa mifano kuhusu matendo yangu mabaya na kusifu Mtandao wa Wasaidizi wa Kisheria wa Nyarongi. Nilipomwomba aniambie zaidi kuhusu kundi hilo, alinishawishi nihudhurie mkutano,&#8221; alisema.  <\/p>\n<p>Tangu ajiunge na kikundi hicho, Ogola anasema vipaumbele vyake vimebadilika. Amejenga nyumba, analipa karo za shule kwa watoto wake, na huwaelimisha wengine waziwazi kuhusu hatari za unyonyaji wa kingono na utoaji mimba usio salama.   <\/p>\n<p>Mkewe, Diana Akinyi, anathibitisha mabadiliko hayo.  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hatupigani tena sana,&#8221; anasema. &#8220;Sasa nimeolewa kwa furaha.&#8221;   <\/p>\n<p>Leo, wanaume wale wale walioogopwa na jamii wanakuwa walinzi wake. Mtandao wa Wasaidizi wa Kisheria wa Nyarongi pia umeanzisha Kikundi cha Utekelezaji wa Jamii. Kikundi cha Utekelezaji wa Jamii sasa kinajumuisha mabingwa 20 waliofunzwa wa SRHR, wakiwemo Obanda aliyebadilishwa, akina mama vijana, viongozi wa kidini, na washauri akina mama. Kwa pamoja, wanaongoza mazungumzo, wanawashirikisha vijana, na hufanya kazi kwa karibu na viongozi wa eneo.     <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hapo awali, watu walipotuona na wasichana wadogo, walikuwa wakipiga kelele,&#8221; Ogola anasema. &#8220;Sasa chifu ananialika kuzungumza kwenye baraza.&#8221;   <\/p>\n<p>Athari hii inaimarishwa na mifumo mipana ya usaidizi. Ili kushughulikia mimba za utotoni na utoaji mimba usio salama, Serikali ya Kaunti ya Homa Bay imeanzisha nyumba salama ya vitanda 52 katika Mji wa Ndhiwa, yenye wafanyakazi wa afya na ushirikiano wa ndani na mshirika binafsi. Kituo hiki kinatoa ulinzi, huduma ya matibabu, na huduma za rufaa kwa manusura.    <\/p>\n<p>Kwa ushirikishwaji unaoendelea wa jamii, ushauri, na mifumo ya usaidizi, matumaini ni kwamba vizazi vijavyo huko Ndhiwa vitakua bila mimba za utotoni, utoaji mimba usio salama, na unyanyasaji wa kijinsia. [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kundi la wanaume limeketi kwa uvumilivu chini ya mti huku wakizungumza kwa upole baada ya kazi ngumu ya siku nzima katika mashamba. Kwa kawaida, wangekuwa wakizungumzia kuhusu soka, siasa, au safari zinazohusiana na miwa. 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